by Neil Wilkie | Jun 15, 2026 | News
There is a particular kind of courage that does not announce itself. It is not the courage of the grand gesture or the dramatic leap. It is quieter than that, and in some ways harder. It is the courage to stand at the edge of what you know — at the very border of your...
by Neil Wilkie | Jun 12, 2026 | News
The Lingering Echo: Healing When the Repair Is Done but the Hurt Remains There is a particular kind of pain that rarely gets spoken about. It isn’t the pain of discovery — the messages, the comments, the contact that should never have happened. And it...
by Neil Wilkie | Jun 9, 2026 | News
After the Drift: What to Do When a Long Relationship Reaches a Crossroads You have been together fifteen, perhaps twenty years. From the outside, the relationship looks settled. There is a home, a history, shared people, a rhythm to the days. And yet somewhere along...
by Neil Wilkie | May 21, 2026 | News
Why We Have Been Looking in the Wrong Place for Love The Married at First Sight controversy points to a deeper truth about what actually keeps relationships alive Dr Neil Wilkie Relationship Therapist | Visiting Fellow, Middlesex University | Founder of the Duo...
by Neil Wilkie | May 5, 2026 | News
Three Rooms On counselling, psychoanalysis and the Duo Coaching Framework When a couple decides to seek help for their relationship, they rarely know what kind of room they are walking into. The word therapy covers an enormous range of traditions, each with its own...
by Neil Wilkie | Apr 30, 2026 | News
Fifteen Years in the Room: Why I Wrote Reinventing Relationship Therapy https://duocoaching.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2026/04/v24044gl0000d7opf2nog65rkrm4s360.mp4 Today, the first book in my Routledge trilogy is published. It is called Reinventing...