by Neil Wilkie | Aug 8, 2026 | News
Most of us go on holiday expecting to feel better. And then, somewhere around day four, we don’t. The mood drops. Something old surfaces. A conversation goes wrong over nothing. We fall ill the moment we stop. And we conclude, quietly and wrongly, that...
by Neil Wilkie | Jul 24, 2026 | News
The Four Moves of Repair: A Step-by-Step Guide So something happened. It was small, or it was large. The temperature dropped. Someone went quiet or someone raised their voice. Now what? Repair is not complicated, but it is exact. There are four moves, and they happen...
by Neil Wilkie | Jun 15, 2026 | News
There is a particular kind of courage that does not announce itself. It is not the courage of the grand gesture or the dramatic leap. It is quieter than that, and in some ways harder. It is the courage to stand at the edge of what you know — at the very border of your...
by Neil Wilkie | Jun 12, 2026 | News
The Lingering Echo: Healing When the Repair Is Done but the Hurt Remains There is a particular kind of pain that rarely gets spoken about. It isn’t the pain of discovery — the messages, the comments, the contact that should never have happened. And it...
by Neil Wilkie | Jun 9, 2026 | News
After the Drift: What to Do When a Long Relationship Reaches a Crossroads You have been together fifteen, perhaps twenty years. From the outside, the relationship looks settled. There is a home, a history, shared people, a rhythm to the days. And yet somewhere along...
by Neil Wilkie | May 21, 2026 | News
Why We Have Been Looking in the Wrong Place for Love The Married at First Sight controversy points to a deeper truth about what actually keeps relationships alive Dr Neil Wilkie Relationship Therapist | Visiting Fellow, Middlesex University | Founder of the Duo...
