Drifted Apart

Many couples find that what started off as a wonderful relationship fades over time and the distractions of work, career, home, money and children may mean the focus has been elsewhere. Lives that were once entwined with closeness, intimacy and fun have become very separate.

Which of these are you experiencing?

Conversations that were frequent, deep and often flowed into the early morning become brief, superficial and only about ‘stuff’.

Disagreements may be about big or small things but so much is repeated but unresolved and resentment is festering.

The person that you felt deeply connected with as your soul mate, now feels a disconnected stranger.

Sex and intimacy that was once frequent, passionate and exciting has become rare (if at all) and formulaic.

You struggle to remember when you last had fun; just the two of you?

You are together but you want so much more from your relationship.

Couples rarely invest in their relationship and time diminishes what was once great. We can help you create a new and much better relationship that is based on the love from the past but accepts that years have gone past and that you are both and circumstances are very different.

What makes us different?

Two Coaches Perspective

Traditional relationship counselling uses one counsellor working with a couple or an individual.

We will only start work if both of you are there as we believe it is essential to hear both perspectives and for each of you to hear the other’s story.

Having two of us in the room means that we can go deeper more quickly and ensures there is a balance and that both of you will feel listened to and supported.

Two Coaches Perspective

Combined Counselling and Coaching

We will use the most appropriate tools to understand how you have both got to where you are now, the patterns of behaviour that have been created in yourselves before and during the relationship. We will then choose the best approaches to help you both get to the outcomes that you both want.

Combined Counselling and Coaching

Our 24/7 Service

Clients who work with us over a period of months receive unlimited telephone and email support between sessions. This is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. If a problem or question comes up, even in the middle of the night, we are there to help you in the moment.

Our 24/7 Service

We Listen & Focus On The Outcomes That You Want

We believe it is essential to get clarity on the outcomes that you both want and to ensure those are coherent and compatible. It may take a while to dig deep and get that real clarity. Once we have this it gives us all a course to steer to the destination.

We Listen & Focus On The Outcomes That You Want

Safe Environment Where There Is No Blame

We work hard to ensure that we create a space where you both feel safe and able to be open and honest.

We need to understand how you have both got to where you are right now as this will enable us to help you look forwards and get to a different and better future.

Safe Environment Where There Is No Blame

Wide Range Of Tools, Techniques, Skills

We have both been trained in a wide range of tools and techniques and are very fortunate to be able to select the approaches that will get the best outcomes for both of you.

Wide Range Of Tools, Techniques, Skills