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Traditional relationship counselling uses one counsellor working with a couple or an individual.

We will only start work if both of you are there as we believe it is essential to hear both perspectives and for each of you to hear the other’s story.

Having two of us in the room means that we can go deeper more quickly and ensures there is a balance and that both of you will feel listened to and supported.

We will use the most appropriate tools to understand how you have both got to where you are now, the patterns of behaviour that have been created in yourselves before and during the relationship. We will then choose the best approaches to help you both get to the outcomes that you both want.

Clients who work with us over a period of months receive unlimited telephone and email support between sessions. This is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. If a problem or question comes up, even in the middle of the night, we are there to help you in the moment.

We believe it is essential to get clarity on the outcomes that you both want and to ensure those are coherent and compatible. It may take a while to dig deep and get that real clarity. Once we have this it gives us all a course to steer to the destination.

We work hard to ensure that we create a space where you both feel safe and able to be open and honest.

We need to understand how you have both got to where you are right now as this will enable us to help you look forwards and get to a different and better future.

We have both been trained in a wide range of tools and techniques and are very fortunate to be able to select the approaches that will get the best outcomes for both of you.