Books and Media
Neil is also the creator of The Relationship Paradigm and the Relationship Paradigm series of books.
The first, Reset – Finding a new course after drifting apart was published in Jan 2020. It examines: What happens when the relationship moves from connexion to disconnection? Is it possible to reignite your love for each other do you want to?
Reset is an emotionally engaging parable sharing the everyday exchanges between Rachel and John, a couple stressed and frustrated after 16 years of marriage, and aware of an ever deepening loneliness in each other’s company. It provides a rare opportunity to hear their alternative perspectives of the same events as they begin their battle to get back to each other.
The second book Recover – Rebuilding trust after the shock of betrayal was published in February 2021. It looks at what happens when your partner has an affair and betrays you? How do you cope with the shock hurt and anger? How does your partner cope with your responses? Can you rebuild trust and the relationship? Do you want to?
Recover is an emotionally engaging parable sharing the everyday exchanges between Andy and Susan in their unfolding story after 12 years of marriage.Busy with work, stressed by Parenthood and with little spare time for each other. Understand what was behind the betrayal and how it impacts then. You are given the rare opportunity to hear alternative perspectives of the same events, to relate to what they’re going through and to identify with their battle to get back to each other.
Neil is an author and a frequent contributor to a wide range of publications. His books and articles have been read by over 4.8 million people. He has written over 370 articles in the press and is called as ‘The Relationship Expert’ by media including The Sunday Times, Independent, Daily Telegraph, Sunday Telegraph, Daily Mail, The Express, The Sun, Red, Reuters, Metro, OK Magazine, BBC Radio, Times Radio, BBC News.
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