Duo Coaching | Relationship Counselling New Forest Hampshire

What is Duo Coaching?

Welcome to Duo Coaching

I am Dr. Neil Wilkie and created this unique approach to Relationship Counselling over 15 years ago.
This work is my passion and I feel very privileged to have been able to help hundreds of couples develop great relationships. I have written two books, hundreds of articles for most newspapers and have a Doctorate in the ‘Phenomenology of Relationships’.
When you come to work with Maria and I, we will guide you on a journey to deal with past events and traumas and create a new and better relationship.

Get in touch to see how we can help

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CRISIS

We are in real crisis. Things are so bad that I can’t see a way forward. Mayday, Mayday!

AFFAIR / BETRAYAL

I have just discovered about an affair or betrayal. I feel shocked, angry, hurt and just don’t know what to do.

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DRIFTED APART

We started off so well but over the years, life, children and work have distracted us from our own relationship. We have drifted apart and need help in getting close to each other and heading in the same direction.

A NEW CHAPTER

We have decided that the gap between is too large and we need to go in different directions. We want to part as amicably as possible and protect family, friends and children. We also want to celebrate what was good in our past and learn what we need to do differently in future relationships.

A CLEAN START

We are newly in love and both have had difficult past relationships. We want to learn what we need to from those and to have a clean start in our new relationship together.

RELATIONSHIP COACHING

Our relationship is OK but we want more. We want to make it really wonderful again.

What makes us different?

Two Coaches Perspective

Traditional relationship counselling uses one counsellor working with a couple or an individual.

We will only start work if both of you are there as we believe it is essential to hear both perspectives and for each of you to hear the other’s story.

Having two of us in the room means that we can go deeper more quickly and ensures there is a balance and that both of you will feel listened to and supported.

Two Coaches Perspective

Combined Counselling and Coaching

We will use the most appropriate tools to understand how you have both got to where you are now, the patterns of behaviour that have been created in yourselves before and during the relationship. We will then choose the best approaches to help you both get to the outcomes that you both want.

Combined Counselling and Coaching

Our 24/7 Service

Clients who work with us over a period of months receive unlimited telephone and email support between sessions. This is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. If a problem or question comes up, even in the middle of the night, we are there to help you in the moment.

Our 24/7 Service

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We Listen & Focus On The Outcomes That You Want

We believe it is essential to get clarity on the outcomes that you both want and to ensure those are coherent and compatible. It may take a while to dig deep and get that real clarity. Once we have this it gives us all a course to steer to the destination.

We Listen & Focus On The Outcomes That You Want

Safe Environment Where There Is No Blame

We work hard to ensure that we create a space where you both feel safe and able to be open and honest.

We need to understand how you have both got to where you are right now as this will enable us to help you look forwards and get to a different and better future.

Safe Environment Where There Is No Blame

Wide Range Of Tools, Techniques, Skills

We have both been trained in a wide range of tools and techniques and are very fortunate to be able to select the approaches that will get the best outcomes for both of you.

Wide Range Of Tools, Techniques, Skills

Watch Neil & Maria Explain How They Work

Relationship Quizzes

Relationship Health Check

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Are you ready for a better relationship?

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Intimacy and Sex Scorecard

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Attachment Style

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Contact Us

We are based in Lymington Hampshire and see clients from all over the UK
We can deal with your initial enquiry by email, phone or Zoom

By adding a short description of your issue as well as any questions,
we can give you our best reply.

We would love to talk to you to explore how we can help you have a better relationship.

We can do this on the Phone or by Zoom.

or you can:

Book a 30 minute Zoom Call

Book a 30 minute Phone Call

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Testimonials

From the first session we knew we were making real progress. We have had a big journey in a short time and if we hadn’t come to you we would have split up. Thank you for all you have done. We are both feeling much calmer and happier.

We have tried lots of counsellors before and got nowhere. We saw you as the last chance to fix our relationship of over 20 years. We now know that we have a real chance of making it work.

To the dynamic duo that is you Neil….and lovely lovely Maria…..I just had to send a quick email to say a huge thank you to both of you for our first amazing session last night…..you’ve given us more than anyone else has ever been able to do…..and most of all …..a lot of hope that we can do this……with your support….

Money well spent, you do so much more than any other counsellors have been able to. The quality of what you do is exceptional.

When shopping around for counselling, 95% demanded weekly sessions at specific times, and were totally inflexible. You can give us the flexibility we need, and besides which, I like the idea that Duo Coaching is a man and a woman.

All our past problems are now cleared, we have a clean start. We can now discuss things properly, without the arguments that we have had for so long. We are now great parents, working as a team. Our intimacy, that had disappeared, is now off the scale!

Our first session was wonderful. In all our time together, we have never had the opportunity to talk properly. This has cleared a lot. We are now so much more comfortable with each other. It is difficult to believe just how much has improved after one session.

They work fabulously together. They have great complementary skills that mean you get a well rounded approach with real results. It is definitely a case of two heads being better than one. Your best qualities are caring, understanding, being relaxing to be with, thought provoking, listening, remembering and genuinely caring.

My life and our lives are so much better for working with you. It has made such a significant difference to us. The difference between staying together and keeping our family or splitting up after we had been through some rough times. You offer a very specialised and invaluable opportunity.