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Advice for Grey Divorces

Here's an excellent article by Nathalie Boutet. We think it's well worth passing on this advice....  Are you or your partner more than 60 years old and divorcing?   If so, then collaboration or mediation can be your best hope of preserving your family’s finances. Much has been written about the…

7 Signs you are in an authentic relationship

I read this on powerofpositivity.com and liked the sentiments.   Here are 7 signs you’re in an authentic relationship that helps you grow as an individual. You’re involved with someone who gives you wings One of their main focuses is to see you happy, freed from restrictions, and using your…

The worst distance...

We often work with couples who live their lives over geogrpahical distances, for some or most of the time. Yet it often isn't the miles or kilometers that causes problems, so much as the misunderstandings that arise from poor communication. Gaining clarity is key.  If you can't get it due to…

Now divorced? Time to help your kids

The film doing the round of the cinemas right now 'What we did on our holidays' starring David Tennant, Rosamund Pike and the peerless Billy Connolly ' is a comedy with a telling theme about adults taking responsibility for what they are doing to each other within their relationships (finally). Then comes this…

Scotland reconciling....

Here's a neat article drawing comparisions between the aftermath of the Scottish Referendum and marriage counselling by Phillip Hodson and posted on the BBC website.  Well done Phillip!   Most people behaved themselves during the referendum campaign but there were outbreaks of rancour. How would a family counsellor heal the…